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Monthly Archive: June 2012

TMI Tuesday – Good Ol’ Summertime

Good Ol’ Summertime

TMI Tuesday questions submitted by Andee.

1. Summer is a time to escape, kick back and chill. What is your favourite way to relax when the warm weather hits?
I absolutely love the sunshine and summer heat, as long as there is some sort of breeze. I don’t like hot, humid, stagnant air, but when there’s a nice breeze, I almost don’t care how hot it is. My favorite way to relax would be kicking back in the shade somewhere, preferably in a hammock, listening to some music, and/or reading a book. Or tubing down the river with some friends while enjoying a few refreshing, ice-cold adult beverages.

2. Have you ever been to a drive-in movie theatre? My first date was to a drive-in movie, what is your best memory of these classic outdoor theatres?
I grew up going to the drive-in with my parents and two younger sisters. Popcorn, mosquito coils burning on the dash, the tinny sound of the movie coming from the speaker hanging on the window. I can remember seeing a plethora of old Disney films, as well as Jaws, Star Wars, Grease, and other classics. One memory from way back then was watching Every Which Way But Loose on one screen, but way back in the far corner there was another screen showing a porno film! We kids kept turning around to try to watch that, probably most of all because my parents kept telling us that we shouldn’t be watching it!

As an adult, it is been very hard to find a drive-in theater anymore. The last one we had here in town closed a few years ago. It was a real tragedy because the property was purchased by a church. After they took over the property, they found at least a hundred reels of porn films. Because they were very anti-porn fundamentalists, they held a big bonfire and burned all of the films! How awesome would it have been to have those reels??

My best memory of going there was taking my [now ex-] girlfriend’s Astrovan. She, my BFF, her boyfriend, and I picked up a few pizzas and beer, backed the van toward the screen and watched the movie Blow. It was a great time. And, of course, my girlfriend and I totally had sex once or twice in the van there during other movies. 😉

3. Have you ever had a summer fling? How did it develop and why did it end?
Not specifically, now that I think about it. However, the “endless summer of ’94” was a summer filled with many casual flings. It was the summer I discovered and joined the live cast of the Rocky Horror Picture Show, if that tells you anything. “Rocky” parties were pretty legendary and Truth or Dare was our favorite party game…

4. Board shorts and bikinis leave something to the imagination, but have you ever tried a nude beach?
Not specifically, but I have been nude on a regular public beach. Many times!

5. What are your thoughts on the Speedo and the Wicked Weasel?

Speedo, Wicked Weasel bikini and mesh one-piece.
No opinion, really. Just not my personal tastes.

6. The warm weather is a great opportunity to “get busy” outdoors? Have you ever? Tell us about it.
Anyone who reads my blog knows that I “get busy” outdoors as often as possible. I have a large deck on the back of my house and we have sex out there as often as we can!

7. Sunrise or sunset? Which is your summer favourite?
I am a sucker for a beautiful sunset, any time of year. Sunrises are fantastic also, if I can manage to get out of bed early enough, but that’s highly unlikely!

8. What is the one summer delight that really quenches your thirst? How about your lust?
Skinny-dipping! Anytime I can get naked in the water outdoors makes me happy! I don’t care if it’s during the day or night. Nothing is as freeing to me as that. And skinny-dipping often leads to all sorts of friskiness! 😉

Bonus:  Summer is the time to participate in outdoor activities. Where would you most like to have sex :
– on the beach?
Beach sex can be a lot of fun, but it’s very tricky. It can be difficult NOT to get sand in nooks and crannies where you just don’t want it!

– at a picnic?
This is probably the most likely option for me, because Roland doesn’t like camping. Of course, it would have to be a well-secluded picnic. He’s not quite as adventurous and daring as I am. 😉

– camping?
This is actually my top choice of the 3. When you have sex while camping, you really have a lot of options. Because of the thin walls and screened windows, sex in a tent is almost just like sex outdoors. Also, you have the option to having sex outside the tent. Having sex outdoors is a really big kink for me. I just love the natural aspect of it.


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

Question about TMI

Historically, this has been a sex blog. Recently, as you know, I haven’t been doing a lot of writing. It’s not because I haven’t been having sex. I just haven’t been writing about sex.

There have been a lot of things going on my life lately that have very little or nothing to do with sex. I have felt the want/need to write about those things, more than I have felt the need to write about sex. But I’m not writing about those, so I haven’t been writing about sex. I haven’t been writing at all, really.

I used to write a lot on LiveJournal, but haven’t really used that in a long time. I’ve considered creating another blog for non-sex-related posts. But since the mere thought of trying to maintain two blogs exhausts me, that’s not really an option.

Then I got to thinking, the name of my blog is “T is for TMI” and there are all sorts of TMI. It’s not just sexual. So I’ve been considering re-branding my blog just a bit, making it more of a mix in regards to content. I have always been all about TMI in my blogging, which is why the name is so perfect for me. I don’t have any problems with mixing the personal in with the, uh… really personal, if you know what I mean. 😉

My question to you, my dear, faithful readers, is how do you feel about that??? Is my personal, non-sex-related stuff TMI for you???

TMI Tuesday – The Most Times

TMI Tuesday: June 12, 2012

Posted on June 11, 2012 
This week’s TMI Tuesday theme is…

We want to know what thing you’ve done the most times.

1. What sex position have you been in the most times?
Believe it or not, the position we use most often is missionary.

2. What book have you read …?
Awaken the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins and The Tao of Pooh by Benjamin Hoff

3. What movie have you watched …?
Napoleon Dynamite. It’s my all-time favorite movie.

4. In the last week, who have you texted … ? (no names, list the relationship or type of person)
The person I text most is always my 17-year-old baby sister.

5. In the last week, what food have you eaten …?
I usually eat a banana and a granola bar every single day of the work week.

6. Today, which website have you visited …?
My blog. 🙂

7. When dining out, where have you eaten …?
Lupita’s, a hole-in-the-wall mom and pop Mexican restaurant up the road from us.

8. Which sex toy have you used …?
My GrrlToyz Silk Touch EggVibe and my Feeldoe Slim.

Bonus: Is there something you’d love to go back and relive in your sexual past?
(Thank you to Husband of Two Sexual Minds for this week’s bonus question)

Yes, I would love to go back to the night my Princess Angel and I destroyed a motel room.


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

TMI Tuesday – Think Kink

From the kinky mind of Cara Sutra, I give you this week’s TMI Tuesday questions….

Think kink!

1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically? 
My brain, without a doubt. It gives me the desire to want to try just about anything. It is also conditioned to know that there is no shame in it!

2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they? 
Textbook fetishes? No, not really. I have several kinks, however. I’m going to go ahead an link you to my FetLife page. The “fetishes” haven’t really been filled in to my satisfaction, but it will give you a good idea of the basics.

3. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it? Tell us more… 
Yes, many times with many different implements including, but not limited to: wooden paddles, leather paddles, ping pong paddles, riding crops, canes, wooden spoons, rubber spatulas, hairbrushes, fly swatters, and bare hands. I enjoy being spanked a great deal, especially when it leaves me with a nice, tender tushy and marks to admire later!

4. Have you been tied up, or tied someone else up? Did you use rope or restraints? 
Yes, to both accounts. I have used ropes, neckties, scarves, stockings, just-removed-panties, whatever is on hand.

5. Would you classify yourself as more dominant, submissive, a switch or entirely vanilla
I am a natural dominant and control freak. I don’t like to be told what to do. I like to tell other people what to do. In my mind, services are FOR me, not BY me.

That being said, I have recently recounted how my love, Roland, broke me. Submission does not come natural to me, but it can be brought out in the right circumstances. When I love someone truly, madly, and deeply, I want to do everything in my power to take care of him/her and ensure his/her happiness.

6. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done? 
Truthfully, I am FAR from the kinkiest person I know. The kinkiest thing I’ve done was actually an online/phone roleplay that involved extreme ageplay, incest, rape, bestiality, and scat. All at the same time. I would never do most of that in real life, though. I’ve tried a little bit of everything, though, and will be fully detailed in future posts. 😉

7. Have you been to a BDSM club? What was it like? If not, would you ever go to one? Yes, I have. It was AMAZING. And I can’t wait to go again!

8. What’s your favourite fetish item or implement?
A Wartenberg pinwheel. And/or hot wax. And leather floggers. And a riding crop. Do I have to pick just one???

9. Favourite kinky clothing material?
I truthfully prefer not to wear any clothing at all. I’d rather wear my shit-eating grin and the marks that were left behind from a great play session. However, I do like to see others in leather and/or latex. 😉

10. Thigh boots – love ‘em or hate ‘em?
LOVE! THEM! Wearing them, watching them be worn. HOTHOTHOT!

11. If you’re kinky, who knows about it? Do you tell people or is it a closely guarded secret?
I think just about everybody that knows me knows that I am kinky. The only exceptions are most of the people I work with (of course) and my boyfriend’s parents. I see no reason to keep it from anyone else.

12. What are your personal limits?
Despite the roleplay I mentioned above, these are all hard limits for me: children, animals, corpses, scat. Just about anything else is negotiable.

13. What’s your safeword and why did you choose that one?
I don’t have one specific safeword. We use “safety lights”: red for stop, yellow for slow down, green for MORE!! But I have yet to ever use any.

14. Which fetishes do you just really not get?
Infantilism, i.e. grown-ups who like to pretend that they’re babies, complete with diapers. It completely squicks me out.

Bonus: Complete this sentence: To me, Fetish, Kink and BDSM means…

This is not an easy question for me to answer. I know many who cannot fathom living without their “lifestyle”, that it is such a huge part of who they consider themselves to be, that denying it would be akin to death. I am not that person. There are so many different facets of my personality and being that I don’t feel like I MUST have any of it to survive and be happy. Of course, I could certainly live the rest of my life without ever eating chocolate again, but I certainly wouldn’t want to! To me, they are all just about adding more enjoyment and pleasure to my life. 🙂

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

Sinful Sunday – On the deck

I have really been neglectful of my blog lately. I just haven’t been able to find the will to write because I’m going through a bit of depression. I know it’ll pass soon. One thing that helps me to feel better is to get outside into the fresh air. Sharing several pics to try to make up for the lack of posts in recent weeks.

Posted in participation with Sinful Sunday, hosted by Molly’s Daily Kiss.

Click below to see who else is baring it all outdoors this Sunday.

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