Monthly Archive: June 2012
Historically, this has been a sex blog. Recently, as you know, I haven’t been doing a lot of writing. It’s not because I haven’t been having sex. I just haven’t been writing about sex.
There have been a lot of things going on my life lately that have very little or nothing to do with sex. I have felt the want/need to write about those things, more than I have felt the need to write about sex. But I’m not writing about those, so I haven’t been writing about sex. I haven’t been writing at all, really.
I used to write a lot on LiveJournal, but haven’t really used that in a long time. I’ve considered creating another blog for non-sex-related posts. But since the mere thought of trying to maintain two blogs exhausts me, that’s not really an option.
Then I got to thinking, the name of my blog is “T is for TMI” and there are all sorts of TMI. It’s not just sexual. So I’ve been considering re-branding my blog just a bit, making it more of a mix in regards to content. I have always been all about TMI in my blogging, which is why the name is so perfect for me. I don’t have any problems with mixing the personal in with the, uh… really personal, if you know what I mean. 😉
My question to you, my dear, faithful readers, is how do you feel about that??? Is my personal, non-sex-related stuff TMI for you???
|How nice of his cock to lean over so as to not block the view|
As you all read this, I am at the happiest place on Earth (Bonnaroo). My darling Roland has agreed to substitute something nice for me. I hope you enjoy it. I know I certainly do. 😉
|“thinking of you” – Roland|
1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically?
My brain, without a doubt. It gives me the desire to want to try just about anything. It is also conditioned to know that there is no shame in it!
2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they?
Textbook fetishes? No, not really. I have several kinks, however. I’m going to go ahead an link you to my FetLife page. The “fetishes” haven’t really been filled in to my satisfaction, but it will give you a good idea of the basics.
3. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it? Tell us more…
Yes, many times with many different implements including, but not limited to: wooden paddles, leather paddles, ping pong paddles, riding crops, canes, wooden spoons, rubber spatulas, hairbrushes, fly swatters, and bare hands. I enjoy being spanked a great deal, especially when it leaves me with a nice, tender tushy and marks to admire later!
4. Have you been tied up, or tied someone else up? Did you use rope or restraints?
Yes, to both accounts. I have used ropes, neckties, scarves, stockings, just-removed-panties, whatever is on hand.
5. Would you classify yourself as more dominant, submissive, a switch or entirely vanilla?
I am a natural dominant and control freak. I don’t like to be told what to do. I like to tell other people what to do. In my mind, services are FOR me, not BY me.
That being said, I have recently recounted how my love, Roland, broke me. Submission does not come natural to me, but it can be brought out in the right circumstances. When I love someone truly, madly, and deeply, I want to do everything in my power to take care of him/her and ensure his/her happiness.
6. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?
Truthfully, I am FAR from the kinkiest person I know. The kinkiest thing I’ve done was actually an online/phone roleplay that involved extreme ageplay, incest, rape, bestiality, and scat. All at the same time. I would never do most of that in real life, though. I’ve tried a little bit of everything, though, and will be fully detailed in future posts. 😉
7. Have you been to a BDSM club? What was it like? If not, would you ever go to one? Yes, I have. It was AMAZING. And I can’t wait to go again!
8. What’s your favourite fetish item or implement?
A Wartenberg pinwheel. And/or hot wax. And leather floggers. And a riding crop. Do I have to pick just one???
9. Favourite kinky clothing material?
I truthfully prefer not to wear any clothing at all. I’d rather wear my shit-eating grin and the marks that were left behind from a great play session. However, I do like to see others in leather and/or latex. 😉
10. Thigh boots – love ‘em or hate ‘em?
LOVE! THEM! Wearing them, watching them be worn. HOTHOTHOT!
11. If you’re kinky, who knows about it? Do you tell people or is it a closely guarded secret?
I think just about everybody that knows me knows that I am kinky. The only exceptions are most of the people I work with (of course) and my boyfriend’s parents. I see no reason to keep it from anyone else.
12. What are your personal limits?
Despite the roleplay I mentioned above, these are all hard limits for me: children, animals, corpses, scat. Just about anything else is negotiable.
13. What’s your safeword and why did you choose that one?
I don’t have one specific safeword. We use “safety lights”: red for stop, yellow for slow down, green for MORE!! But I have yet to ever use any.
14. Which fetishes do you just really not get?
Infantilism, i.e. grown-ups who like to pretend that they’re babies, complete with diapers. It completely squicks me out.
Bonus: Complete this sentence: To me, Fetish, Kink and BDSM means…
I have really been neglectful of my blog lately. I just haven’t been able to find the will to write because I’m going through a bit of depression. I know it’ll pass soon. One thing that helps me to feel better is to get outside into the fresh air. Sharing several pics to try to make up for the lack of posts in recent weeks.