The real-life adventures of a girl who is willing to try just about anything.

Monthly Archive: July 2012

Sinful Sunday – Knife to meet you

Unfortunately, while I did have a couple of excellent play sessions at the ‘Shed last weekend, I did not get any pictures. Neither Lucy nor I received any lasting marks and photography is strictly forbidden in the dungeon, so photos during play are impossible.
However, yesterday was one of our local munches, immediately followed by a play party. I was made into a puddle not once, but twice in succession. First I was treated to one of my favorite things: a sensual soy wax massage. Barely 10 minutes after I’d put my clothes on after that, I was taking them off again for a knife play session with a Dom friend known as Pushing Steel, for he specializes in knife play. In fact, he will be doing a demo at our munch next month, and guess who has volunteered to be his demo dolly? *big grin*

If you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours…
I’ve done some light blade play before, always involving the removal of wax. But I’d never before experienced anything like this. As you can see, my skin was not broken and only minor scratches were left behind. They completely belie the amazing intensity of the scene. 
At one point (no pun intended), the bench on which I was kneeling wobbled (a bolt had broken earlier, making it slightly unstable if I leaned, but still usable) and I had to stand up. After it was steadied, PS told me to “sit” but my brain wasn’t working properly, as you can imagine. So I kneeled once again, and the bench wobbled. Again he told me to sit. I kneeled again. This happened a couple of times, to the point where bystanders, including Roland and Lucy, were all telling me to sit. I just wasn’t getting it. I thought he was trying to tell me to sit still! Finally I figured it out and sat down on the bench on my ass, which was rewarded with a  round of applause!
Afterward I was “floaty,” as Lucy calls it. I wore a big, dopey grin on my face for the rest of the time we were there and coherent conversation was very difficult. I was warm and fuzzy all over. We left not long after that because it was almost 1am, Roland was getting tired, and there was no way it would be possible for me to drive. 
When we got home, my housegirl asked me if I was drunk or on anything. I happily replied that I was not, and she expressed envy for that feeling. She has very limited “play” experience and has said before that she does not like pain or any of that. I told her that she has not had the right things done in the right way. I am very much looking forward to showing her those things in the future…

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Bonnaroo 2012

For the first time ever in my blog’s (admittedly short) history, this post has absolutely nothing to do with sex (although, there was that slight sight-seeing detour at exit 146…). By request from the lovely Winsome Gypsy, I am giving you my full Bonnaroo report! 🙂 I’m going to treat this as if you know nothing about the festival, so it’s going to be a long one, complete with pictures.

TMI Tuesday – Let’s Go To Bed (Again)

Once again Virtualsin has provided us with TMI Tuesday questions.

Let’s Go To Bed

Most importantly it is the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday. Tell us about your bed.

1. What size (King, queen, full, twin)?
California King

2. What mattress construction (conventional springs, air bed, water bed, Tempurpedic-type)?
Conventional springs with 4-inch memory foam mattress topper.

3. What type furniture (just a frame, headboard/footboard, canopy, trundle, etc)? Describe.
Brass headboard

4. If your bed has headboard/footboard or bedposts, have you ever been tied to them? Ever tied anyone to them? For what purpose?
Amazingly enough, I have never been tied to the headboard, nor have I ever tied anyone else. I think this situation needs to be rectified!

5. What kind of sheets (cotton, linen, silk, flannel)?
Burgundy cotton percale sheets

6. What kind of blankets (cotton, wool, thermal, electric)?
We live in Florida, so there is no need for blankets!

7. What’s on top (bedspread, duvet,…)?
Red and black flocked bedspread

This is quite a bit fancier than our bed, but that’s the same set we bought.

8. What kind of pillow (down, foam, fiberfill)?
My main pillow is two fiberfill pillows shoved into one pillowcase. I also have 3 smaller pillows that I use: one hand-made fiberfill that’s about 6″ x 12″ with a Winnie-the-Pooh pillowcase and 2 of those squishy-bead pillows.

Bonus: Fill in the blank and answer question.

If   you   come over, will [I] let [you] fuck [me] on [my] bed?  YES!

There’s really nothing fancy about our bed. You can see me in it here.

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

Sinful Sunday – Back to the ‘shed

I’ll be out of town this weekend, so I am actually being proactive with making this post. It’s just after midnight on Thursday as I write. This weekend we are making our sophomore journey to the Woodshed in Orlando. As such, I thought I’d share a photo from the day after our last trip, showing off all of my lovely bruises.

If you are unfamiliar, the circular bruises on my back were from my first and only experience with fire cupping, which I didn’t like at all. In fact, I disliked it so much that I had him stop after only a couple of minutes of having the cups attached. I was incredibly disappointed that I didn’t like it, especially after watching two people ahead of me enjoy it immensely. Many people find it to be very relaxing. However, I found it to be terribly painful. I’m really not much for actual pain, so I got out of it as soon as I could. I did enjoy the fire play beforehand, though!

The bruises on my ass are courtesy of Roland. Yummmm. Hopefully I’ll have more to show off next week!

Posted in participation with Sinful Sunday, hosted by Molly’s Daily Kiss.

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Where was I? Where am I?

Dear readers… I hope I still have some. Are you there? Is this thing on? I’m sorry for neglecting you all for so long. I’ve got 10 draft posts right now that I work on in teensy, bite-sized portions. Seems like I get a line, maybe a paragraph, and then my mind wanders off. I keep trying to prime the pump, hoping the words will flow, but everything seems so forced. And it’s not for lack of anything to write about.

Part of the problem has just been making the time. I like to write as I am this moment: while I am at work. My supervisor leaves at 3:30pm, and my manager and the rest of my team are gone by 4:00pm, leaving me without any real chance of being caught. I like to get my work done in the morning, so that I can be free to write in the afternoon during that time. Lately, however, I’ve been slacking in the mornings and then struggling to get some work done before I leave at the end of the day. I’m trying to get back into my routine, however, so that I will have at least a couple of hours to devote to my blog each day.
The reason I like to write while I am here is that there are fewer distractions. The biggest distraction here (other than any lingering work that may need to be done) is the internet. Fortunately I’m getting back to the point where I need less surf time. If I actually start working when I get here in the morning, my brain doesn’t fall into that lazy, slack mode and it’s easier for me to get stuff done in the morning. As long as I don’t get sucked into the internets, I’m pretty good to go. Today was a good work day.
If I’m not able to get any writing done at work, trying to do any at home is generally difficult. Although, looking ahead, that should be a lot easier. My teenage sister, for whom I have been a legal guardian since our mother’s death in 2003 when she was 8, has moved out. She will be 18 at the end of next month, and things had just become very stressful and strained between us. The stress from that situation is what sent me down in the trough for a bit. I’ve managed to make my way back out, but I’m still shaking off the numbness in my brain. Depression is a bitch, and she clings for all she’s worth, let me tell you.
Things are good again, for the most part. I’ve just been really busy. I’ve been trying to figure out a schedule for writing, but I don’t want to make it too regimented. I write best when it is my distraction, i.e. when I’m supposed to be doing something else. Like working. So setting aside time for the purpose of writing doesn’t necessarily work for me. It kind of makes it feel like a chore. I almost never want to do whatever it is that I’m supposed to be doing. But this blog is very important to me. I take it very seriously, probably more seriously than I should.
At any rate, I just wanted to share that you are not forgotten. This is not forgotten. I’m still working some things out, but I am coming back. I have something new in my life that will be definitely giving me more to write about in the future, hopefully from more than one perspective (guest posts?).
To give you a bit of a teaser of things to come: 

  1. I am getting a housegirl. Her training and our developing relationship will be chronicled here. Also, I will be recording posts for her to transcribe. Big boost to content from that alone!
  2. I have at least one trip to the Woodshed planned in the coming weeks, the first of which is next weekend!
  3. My Diva will be visiting me from Berlin!
  4. I’ll finally be venturing into writing some fiction!
So I thank you all for your patience. Thanks for sticking around. The best is yet to come. 🙂

Sinful Sunday – Hotlanta Hotel Sex

Last week, I missed my first Sinful Sunday since I started participating. I had these hot pics to share, but unfortunately Roland’s face could be seen and had to be edited out. Now I’m thinking about getting him a mask for such occasions… 

What was Anonymous doing in my motel room??

*gasp* The things you learn about those closest to you…

Posted in participation with Sinful Sunday, hosted by Molly’s Daily Kiss.

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