1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?
I enjoy a combination of both. I am fond of saying that I don’t actually like pain, that I like intense sensation. To me there is a definite distinction, because pain hurts. That being said, sometimes I like when it hurts so good. I really can’t clarify it more than that.
2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?
To be quite honest, I loath it. However, I dare you to tell my pussy that. I get positively soaked! Roland has recently discovered that he loves to tickle me during sex and/or during pain play. He especially likes to alternate tickles with swats or bites. It completely confuses my brain and renders me useless! All I can do is laugh and moan. Terrible, I tell you!
3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?
I have had a small feather tickler for a while now but haven’t used it very often. Unfortunately it seems like all of those things fall apart in bits. So little pieces of feather fluff end up all over the place and inevitably get on my face, which causes my face to itch and results in sneezes. NOT sexy!
4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?
It’s not something I’ve done very often, which I hereby think I need to rectify, because I actually do enjoy being blindfolded. Having to rely on senses other than sight can be quite exciting. Not knowing what your lover is going to do next can be exhilarating as the anticipation builds!
5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?
I have used both, but not really as a component of sex play. I am VERY fond of hot wax play coupled with ice. The alternating hot/cold is one of the yummiest experiences I’ve ever had!
6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?
YES! 😀 You can see/read details of this all over my blog. There’s even a label/tag for it. 😉
7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?
I don’t have one specific “stop” safeword. We use the “safety lights”: green for more, yellow for ease off/slow down, red for stop. I have never needed to use any of those, personally, in any of my play time. I’ve been fortunate to be with tops who were able to read my body language well enough to not push me too far beyond what I can take.