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TMI Tuesday – Can we be just friends?

Thank you to Erotic Adventures in Brisneyland for the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday.

Can we be just friends?


1. Have you ever had a friendship with a someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?
I will say that I have the most fuckable friends on the planet. I want to do all of them. Seriously. Some more than others. One in particular has earned the nickname “my 7-year conquest.”

2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?
I like to think that I am not prone to this at all, but sometimes I do get a bit jealous. Mostly if he gets to spend time with someone that I do not. I feel like there are certain people with whom I just do not get to spend enough time, but it’s because we all lead such busy lives. I am not jealous of his time, however, because I am more than willing to share him.

3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?
I’ve had several of these, actually. One of my oldest friends, with whom I have been friends since we were 12, and I have been occasional lovers for the past several years.

4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?
I don’t know that I am close friends with any of them that were solely lovers, but I am still friends with a few. Some are friends that became lovers but we ceased to be lovers and returned to being just friends.

Bonus: Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?
I have feelings for all of my friends, to one degree or another. I have probably fallen in love with each of my friends in turn. I have an enormous capacity for love, so my feelings don’t diminish when they are not returned with the same intensity that I feel. On a couple of occasions I have had to take a step back and put a bit of distance in the relationship just for the sake of self-preservation, but with time the distance could be erased again.

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

3 Comments

  1. Kazi G

    The most fuckable friends on the planet, eh? I need more of those 🙂

    Happy TMI!

    ~Kazi xxx

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  2. PaganPrincess

    That you have an old friend who is also an occasional lover (number 3) sounds wonderful! To have that kind of history with someone and be free enough to have that sometimes together. And I really appreciated your bonus answer. I love very deeply, but have never been IN love with a friend. I have leaned so heavily in one direction emotionally, though, that stepping back has been necessary. Losing one’s sense of self and balance is never healthy.

    Thanks for playing!

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  3. Jack and Jill

    We love your answer to #2. We’ve had a great time reading the various answers to this question, as we find jealousy and insecurity to be such an interesting phenomenon. Which is not to say that we don’t experience it, or have never experienced it, in the context of our relationship. But we really enjoy reading others’ thoughts on the subject.

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