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TMI Tuesday – Can we be just friends?

Thank you to Erotic Adventures in Brisneyland for the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday.

Can we be just friends?


1. Have you ever had a friendship with a someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?
I will say that I have the most fuckable friends on the planet. I want to do all of them. Seriously. Some more than others. One in particular has earned the nickname “my 7-year conquest.”

2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?
I like to think that I am not prone to this at all, but sometimes I do get a bit jealous. Mostly if he gets to spend time with someone that I do not. I feel like there are certain people with whom I just do not get to spend enough time, but it’s because we all lead such busy lives. I am not jealous of his time, however, because I am more than willing to share him.

3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?
I’ve had several of these, actually. One of my oldest friends, with whom I have been friends since we were 12, and I have been occasional lovers for the past several years.

4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?
I don’t know that I am close friends with any of them that were solely lovers, but I am still friends with a few. Some are friends that became lovers but we ceased to be lovers and returned to being just friends.

Bonus: Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?
I have feelings for all of my friends, to one degree or another. I have probably fallen in love with each of my friends in turn. I have an enormous capacity for love, so my feelings don’t diminish when they are not returned with the same intensity that I feel. On a couple of occasions I have had to take a step back and put a bit of distance in the relationship just for the sake of self-preservation, but with time the distance could be erased again.

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

TMI Tuesday – Getting off

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are about gettin’ off. When you need it, you just gotta get it anyway you can.  (For those who are innocent babies “IT” is sex)

Gettin’ Off


1. Have you ever initiated a booty call?

Of course! Who hasn’t? As I’ve been in an almost-6-year relationship, however, it has been a while since I’ve had need for that. That being said, I am in a relationship with a man, and I have other urges to satisfy at times. So every once in a while one of my girlfriends will get a call. 😉

2. Have you ever accepted a booty call?

Absolutely and gladly! While there have been some circumstances where the situation was not ideal, I have been known to be a reliable booty call at times in the past. I have always been very open and accepting of sex, and I enjoy it a great deal. I have no qualms about NSA (no strings attached) sex when the situation is right. Everyone needs to get laid sometimes, right?

3. Ever had a “friend with benefits” relationship? 

Honestly, many of my friends are FWB, or have been at one time or another. We’re very friendly like that. 🙂

How long did it last? 
The FWB that I’ve known the longest has been since we were 12, about 25 years ago. Of course, we didn’t start fooling around then. We didn’t do anything until about 7 years ago. She is probably my longest-running FWB. 

Are you still friends or acquaintances with that person? 

She is one of my oldest and closest friends. I imagine that she will be so until the day we die.


Are you still having sex with that friend?
We don’t hook up regularly, but it still happens on occasion.

4. Tell us about your best one-night stand, what made it so good?

My best ever one-night stand was a night that I’d waited years to happen. An old friend, with whom I was completely in love but with whom the timing was just never right, finally gave in to all of my seduction attempts. He played my body as if it was an orchestra and he was a master conductor. He made me cum harder than anyone had until that point. I had never been so thoroughly satisfied by anyone in my life. But apparently it was to be our undoing, because we lost contact shortly thereafter. I was heartbroken for a long time. I will never understand why he never gave us a chance and why he let our friendship go.

5. When was your last one-night stand?
If it was the 2nd time I’d slept with him in the 10 years that I’ve known him, and it’s likely to never happen again, does that count? If so, December of last year (2011). If not, then December of 2008.

6. What’s the grimiest, dirtiest place that you’ve had sex?
There are a couple of answers for this, hehe. A gas station bathroom? In the Atlantic Ocean? On the beach at the Atlantic Ocean? On my driveway?

Bonus: What’s the one random thing you wish your friends knew about you?
This is three (four), but they add up to one thing: that I’m not always right, I don’t know everything, and I don’t always need to have the last word. And that I let go of things a lot more often than they give me credit for.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

It’s good to be me

I may very well be the luckiest and happiest girl in the whole damn world.

Not only do I have a man that loves, cherishes, treasures, spanks, spoils, and fucks the hell out of me with his MAGNIFICENT (and I don’t use that term lightly, my dears) cock. He also fully accepts me for who and what I am, without ever trying to tame me or rein me in. This blog is a prime example of that. He knows that my goal is to be a full-time blogger and that every detail of our personal lives is going to be put out there. And he is completely okay with that.
He and I have a wonderful open relationship. It hasn’t always been easy, of course. There have been some very tense moments and we’ve had to iron out some wrinkles here and there. There have been lots of talks and many tears. But after over 5 years, things are as close to perfect as they’ve ever been. The levels of trust, respect, and communication are through the roof. I really couldn’t ask for anything more.
Additionally, I have some amazing friends. Friends who let me and my man fuck them, who fuck us in return. I won’t say my life is like one big orgy all the time, but yeah, sometimes it is. I’ve been trying to think of a term for the type of relationships we all have. I mean, what do you call it when all of your friends fuck each other? We all have relationships with and respect and love each other, but it’s not exactly polyamory. I was thinking something along the lines of camaradamory or comradamory, but that’s quite a mouthful! Usually in more ways than one! Then again, wherefore is there any need to put a label on something that doesn’t really need to be defined?
Today I am excited and fully reveling in the awesomeness of my life because all morning I have been making plans for a weekend trip in two weeks. My man, 2 of our girlfriends, and I are taking a trip to a semi-local dungeon. By semi-local, I mean it’s 2 hours away. Living in the buckle of the Bible Belt in the southeast U.S., we don’t have anything remotely close to a dungeon here. One girlfriend (the one who’s on bottom in the pic from “In the loft”) booked a jacuzzi suite for us for the weekend. She agrees with my “the more, the merrier” mentality and said it was okay to invite some friends. In addition to my other girlfriend, the friend my girlfriend was fucking in the loft has been invited, but he most likely won’t be able to make it due to other conflicting plans. So my poor, darling man will be left to tend to and satisfy 3 hot, absolutely ravenous women! And of course I’ll be helping out, as well.
*sighing contentedly*
Yes, my life is good, indeed. And don’t worry, I’ll be sure to tell you all about it afterward. With any luck, there will also be some photographs to share. 😉
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