The Sexiest Thing
Before I answer any of these, let me apologize. These are fantastic questions and at any other time, they would have completely different answers. But right now, everything has been eclipsed by Saturday night’s play party. I still haven’t come down from that high yet. 🙂
1. What is the sexiest thing you’ve done in the last two months?
Performing in a burlesque routine in front of a crowd of 100 people consisting of loved ones, friends, and complete strangers at Saturday night’s play party.
2. What is the sexiest thing you’ve worn in the last 30 days?
The black corset, black lacy panties, black garter belt, and black thigh-high stockings I wore for my burlesque routine at Saturday night’s play party.
3. What is the sexiest thing you’ve watched in the last 30 days?
All of the sights from Saturday night’s play party.
4. What is the sexiest thing you’ve heard in the last two weeks?
All of the sounds from Saturday night’s play party.
5. What is the sexiest thing you’ve said in the last 24 hours?
I can’t wait for you to fuck my face. And I wish you could’ve been at Saturday night’s play party.
Bonus: Tell us or show us something sexy.
To compensate for my repetitive answers above, here is a picture of my boobs taken just now (which my cube neighbor almost totally busted me taking!!!).
|It’s also Titty Tuesday, right?|
‘Tis the Season
Thank you to Swinging Gemma for this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.
It can be damaging if it is not properly discussed and communicated ahead of time. There could be unknown triggers for some partners, depending on the fantasy. It’s always important to talk everything out first. Some fantasies are not for everyone, and nobody should do something they really don’t want to do.
Honestly, while there are many actors and actresses that I think are mind-blowingly hot, and I’ve seen lots of super-sexy scenes, I don’t tend to think about them while I’m masturbating or having sex. As such, unfortunately none even come to mind.
There is someone I’ve known and role played with online (and occasionally on the phone) for a long time. He has taught me that many things I never would have considered before can be really hot. Our general interaction and role play scenario incorporates everything listed in the previous question: incest, age play, and rape, in addition to bestiality and scat. It’s downright dirrrrrty, but also some of the hottest stuff I’ve ever thought about. Nothing I would ever truly do in a zillion years.
A gang bang full of random guys from a bar. I’d be passed around, used and abused and tossed aside. It would never happen because there are way too many things that can go wrong, not to mention the high risk factor for disease and/or serious injury.
Yes, And I believe that anybody who answers otherwise isn’t being honest with him/herself.
The first example that comes to mind is the very first time I ever tried. I was very young and naive, barely 18, and I was dating a 31 year old biker. We fucked all the time in the beginning. And one night I thought I would surprise him with a big T sundae. He and I had just taken a shower together. Knowing what I had in mind, I got out before he did and quickly ran into the kitchen to get some whipped cream and chocolate syrup. I went back to the bedroom and lay down on the bed. I covered my pussy and both boobs with whipped cream and drizzled them with chocolate syrup. Then I waited with a big grin on my face. On any other given day, he would be right behind me in about 5 minutes. However, on this particular night, he took his sweet-ass time about it. I think it was fully 15-20 minutes before he joined me in the bedroom. By that time, all of the whipped cream had melted and running down my sides. I couldn’t move my arms from my sides because I didn’t want to get it all over the bed. He busted out laughing as soon as he saw me and said, “awwww honey…” I just wanted to cry! That was the last time I ever tried anything like that again!
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2. What is the shortest relationship you have been in?
I had several flings in my 20s that lasted maybe a couple of weeks.
3. How often do you have sex? How often do you want sex?
We usually have sex at least 2 or three times a week. In a perfect world, I would be having sex at least once a day. I want sex almost constantly.
4. How long does sex usually last?
I think on average we go about 20-30 minutes, depending on how long we have and what time of day it is.
5. Have you ever had an experience where someone couldn’t perform, finished too quickly or couldn’t keep up with you? Tell us about it?
I would venture to say that anyone who has never had at least one of those 3 things occur is lying. We’ve all been through something like that. Probably more than once. It’s completely normal. There are so many factors to consider. One or both partners can be tired or drunk or nervous or overexcited or understimulated, which are all things that influence performance.
6. If you could only have one “type” of sexual encounter for the rest of your life, would you prefer
a) short and sweet
b) wham bam thank you ma’am
c) here for the long haul
d) slow and tender
Honestly, as much as I love rough sex, I would take option D over anything else. I like it when we take our time to enjoy and explore each other.
Bonus: Would you consider ending an otherwise healthy and loving relationship if the sex wasn’t what you wanted?
No. Sex is the easiest issue to resolve in a relationship if both parties are willing to try, and if it is otherwise loving and healthy, then I don’t see any reason why they wouldn’t be. There are just so many other options besides ending the relationship.
Thank you to the TMI Tuesday reader who submitted the following THEN AND NOW questions. He wanted to remain anonymous.
Can we befriends?
1. Have you ever had a friendship with a someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?
I will say that I have the most fuckable friends on the planet. I want to do all of them. Seriously. Some more than others. One in particular has earned the nickname “my 7-year conquest.”
2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?
I like to think that I am not prone to this at all, but sometimes I do get a bit jealous. Mostly if he gets to spend time with someone that I do not. I feel like there are certain people with whom I just do not get to spend enough time, but it’s because we all lead such busy lives. I am not jealous of his time, however, because I am more than willing to share him.
3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?
I’ve had several of these, actually. One of my oldest friends, with whom I have been friends since we were 12, and I have been occasional lovers for the past several years.
4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?
I don’t know that I am close friends with any of them that were solely lovers, but I am still friends with a few. Some are friends that became lovers but we ceased to be lovers and returned to being just friends.
Bonus: Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?
I have feelings for all of my friends, to one degree or another. I have probably fallen in love with each of my friends in turn. I have an enormous capacity for love, so my feelings don’t diminish when they are not returned with the same intensity that I feel. On a couple of occasions I have had to take a step back and put a bit of distance in the relationship just for the sake of self-preservation, but with time the distance could be erased again.