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TMI Tuesday – You Wear It Well

Thank you Gemma Jones for this week’s TMI Tuesday theme and questions focused on clothing.
You Wear It Well

1. What is your most favourite thing to wear that you have in your closet at the moment?
My favorite thing to wear is actually a little black spandex dress that I haven’t worn in a long time. However, my current weight-loss goal is to wear that dress again. I’ll just need to get some new strappy shoes to wear with it!

2. What is the one item of clothing that you have seen on one of your friends / workmates that you would steal for yourself if you had the chance?
The only thing I ever covet from the wardrobes of my friends are their boots. I want all the boots. ALL THE BOOTS ARE BELONG TO ME!!! *ahem* ‘scuse me.

3. What is the one thing that your partner wears that never fails to turn you on. Why does it turn you on so much?
Mmmm… After the pictures I received throughout the day yesterday, I can say that I definitely will not look at him in a pair of jeans the same way. Yum! Although, he has this outfit that he wears to work: black Claiborne slacks and a black shirt with blue and gray stripes that is sooooo delicious! The slacks just showcase his perfect tushy. My man is so hot!

4. What is the one thing you wear when you want to attract the attention of your partner or others?
Apparently it attracts quite a bit of attention when I wear heels. Partially because I usually wear flat sandals. Also because the only heels I can wear are chunky platforms, preferably wedges. Mostly because I’m already tall at 5’10” and any heels I would wear easily put me around 6’1″-6’3″.

5. When you want to feel sexy what do you wear and why?
Wearing lace-top thigh-high stockings always makes me feel sexy, especially if I wear them under pants where nobody else can see them. I love the silky-smooth feeling of stockings. I think I have nice legs, so stockings highlight them.

6. If you had unlimited funds but could only shop for one type of clothing (shoes, lingerie, fetish etc) what would it be?
Although I would never have imagined I’d be the person to say this, I’m really going to have to say it would probably be shoes. I have spent more money on shoes in the past year than I have on any other type of clothing! I’ve become one of those women!

Bonus: Tell us about your favourite scenario, real or fantasy, that involves some kind of clothing or fetish wear.
I’ve always thought it was hot to take off and use my stockings to tie someone to the bedposts or just tie him/her up. Then I take off my panties and gag him/her with them. 🙂 Clothing can be used in all sorts of different scenarios!

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Happy TMI Tuesday!

TMI Tuesday – Celebrity Sex-a-thon!

Thank you to Ms. B for submitting this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.

Celebrity Sex-a-thon!

1. Who is your closest celebrity look-alike? And, who do you think is sexier, you or the celeb?
When I was in high school, everyone used to tell me that I looked like Mayim Bailik (Blossom then and Big Bang Theory now), but I think that’s because we both were mousy and had big noses. I really don’t feel that we look anything like now, if we even did then. I tried to use some celebrity face recognition online software to find an actress that looks like me, but I couldn’t find anything definitive.

2. Who is the hottest male AND female celebrity you can think of? And, if the opportunity presented itself would you have sex with them?
For my whole life (it seems, but at least since I was 12), Johnny Depp has been the hottest male celebrity. No doubt about it. As for females, I think Scarlett Johanssen is so hot that it gives me physical pain in my loins. Beyond a shadow of a doubt I would have sex with them if I had the chance. At the same time? I think I would die!

3. What celebrity do you fantasize about, but wouldn’t admit it to your friends?
There really isn’t much that I wouldn’t admit to my friends. But I guess I get embarrassed by the fact that I want to be mistreated and used by Snoop Dogg.

4. Have you ever watched a leaked celebrity sex tape? Who was it or were they and what did you think? What would you have done differently if you were in the video with them?
As of right this moment, I am ashamed to say that the only celebrity sex tape I’ve ever seen is Tonya Harding’s and that was many, many years ago. All I remember about it is that her titties were nasty-looking. I think I’m going to go home tonight and do some research on other videos!

5. If you are in a relationship, is there anyone your partner knows that you have the ‘hots’ for and they give you the okay to be intimate with? Who would be their’s?
Roland and I have an open relationship, so we don’t need that celebrity “hall pass” list that many people have.

6. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, who would you choose and what would you give them for dessert?
Stephen King!!! OMG, I gave him Junior Mints at a book signing in November 2011, he gave me a hive five, and I almost passed out. He’s just such a cool guy, I’d love the opportunity to just hang out and talk to him.

Bonus: If you were offered the million dollar indecent proposal, what would your answer be and why?
Well, considering I have sex with people outside of my relationship already for free, if someone offered me $1M to do it, I would say, “HELL FUCKING YES!” Unless it was someone really gross.


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TMI Tuesday – Strip for me, I’ll strip for you

Thank you to Andee for submitting this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.

Strip for me, I’ll strip for you

1. Have you ever danced naked in front of anyone? What prompted the experience?
Yes, on many occasions. At first it was probably prompted by an excess of alcohol. However, in later years I did it just because it’s hot!
2. Have you been to a strip club? Was it what you expected?
I have been to many strip clubs many times. It’s been so long since my first time, that I can’t even begin to remember what my initial expectations were. A long time ago, I was hanging out with/fucking this guy with whom I worked. He was a bartender, I was a cocktail waittress. After work almost every night and on our nights off, we would go to this one strip club called Wacko’s. He spent so much money in there that they used to call him the Mayor of Wacko’s. Not only did he not believe in tipping with singles, he tipped based on songs and his favorite bands. The girls knew “his” music and would fight over who got to dance to it. He always paid for drinks, and I got several lap dances each night. It was good to be friends with the Mayor!
3. Have you ever been to an “amateur night” at a strip club?
Now that I think about it, I don’t know that I have. However, there are always so many new girls that almost any night can be an amateur night.
4. Do you think strip clubs are exploitative or are they misunderstood as simple adult entertainment venues?
In general, I do not feel they are exploitative. They present an opportunity for women to make a good, honest living. However, I find it sad that so many women feel as if becoming a dancer is their only option, due to lack of education or other reasons. In that way, there are venues that can be exploitative because they take advantage of the girls who feel they have no other choice. 
5. Would you ever consider stripping to pay for college or other expenses?
Actually, in my fresh adulthood I applied at several places. The very first place I ever applied was actually Wacko’s, although I quickly rescinded the application. I was barely 18 in the summer after high school graduation. Back then I was not the brazen chick you all know now. I was still a bit inhibited and very naive. My 31-year-old biker boyfriend (Yes, really. He was my date for the senior prom!) took me in there and I thought I could do it. That is, until I saw the girl on stage lick her own nipple. Believe it or not, that was enough to scare me away! I thought I’d never be able to do something like that. Haha, if only that sweet, young girl could see me now!
6. Have you ever given your partner a private dance?
Oh yes, many times. I think it is very erotic to dance and do a striptease for your partner.
7. Would you ever perform a lap dance for a complete stranger?
Under the right circumstances, perhaps. I can’t say for sure that I haven’t done it before. I’ve given a lot of highly inebriated lap dances in public places before. 🙂
8. Showgirls, Strip Tease, Magic Mike … What is the sexy Hollywood stripper scene you have ever YouTubed?

To tell the truth, the only Hollywood stripper scene I have ever YouTubed was Channing Tatum’s dance to “My Pony” by Ginuwine. And that was mostly so I could find out what that song that had been stuck in my head since seeing the movie was! Watching him dance was incredibly hot! My BFF and I were like, “OMG, can I just be the floor, please???”
Although I haven’t seen it in a long while, so I can’t say for sure if it holds up, my favorite stripper movie ever is Exotica starring Mia Kirshner, Bruce Greenwood, and Elias Koteas. I need to see that again!

Bonus: Do you have a stripper fantasy, that given the chance of not being found out, you would turn into a reality?
The only stripper fantasy I have involves me having the physique to be able to do it myself, including all of those nifty pole tricks. I am a sucker for pole tricks! Being found out or not has no bearing on it at all.
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TMI Tuesday – The Big O

This week’s theme “Orgasms” and the questions are brought to you by Naughty Tashamber.

The Big O

1 – Do you remember your first orgasm? How old were you? Tell us about it.
Specifically, no. I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember. I can tell you that I knowingly had my first orgasm around the age of 10 in the shower or bathtub as a result of a steady stream of water on my clit. I don’t really recall how I knew that would feel good, but it was probably the best discovery of my life.

2 – What is your favorite way to orgasm? (Sex, g-spot/p-spot, oral, etc).
Currently I am only able to have clitoral orgasms.

3 – Are there any ways you want to experience an orgasm but haven’t yet? (oral, p-spot/g-spot, with or without a vibrator, squirt, etc).
What I would love more than anything in the world would be the ability to have an orgasm just from fucking Roland. He is the only person I have ever been with that makes me want to cum during sex. His magnificent cock hits me in just the right spot where I feel like I must cum, but I still have to play with my clit in order to make it happen. There have been times when I felt SO VERY CLOSE but I just failed to go over the edge, despite all my best efforts.

4 – Have you ever had an orgasm in your sleep?
Not that I am aware of.

5 – What is the easiest/fastest way for you to have an orgasm?
The fastest and easiest way for me to have an orgasm is with direct clitoral stimulation with a powerful vibrator. However, in order for it to be really easy, I have to start off completely cold. If everything is exactly right, I can get off in around 2 minutes flat.

6 – How many times a week do you try to reach orgasm?
It really depends. Because my orgasms can take so much work, I am not necessarily orgasmically-minded. It’s not my primary focus. So I go through phases where I may only orgasm once or twice a week. Sometimes not at all. Every so often, I’ll cum like 5 times in one week. That’s really kind of a lot for me.

7 – Have you ever had an orgasm at the same time as your partner? Who normally cums first?
I am able to simultaneously orgasm with my partner only with very careful planning, but it has happened. I prefer for my partners to cum first, because I don’t necessarily care if I do at all.

8 – Can you have multiples?
No. At most I have had 2 orgasm back-to-back.

9 – How long does it normally take you to reach orgasm?
As I said above, if I am masturbating and everything is just right, I can cum in about 2 minutes. However, if there has been any stimulation at all (including nipples and non-genital areas) it can take much longer. I would say that on average, it probably takes me 15 minutes.

10 – Have you ever faked one?
I am not proud to say that yes, I have faked it a time or two. I have had partners who were not necessarily bad, but just couldn’t do it without very specific instruction at the exact right moment.


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TMI Tuesday – Cum, are you a fan?

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions come from the wacky, inventive, and sexually creative mind of the late phoenix.

Cum, are you a fan?

1. We are all incurable sex addicts, but name one thing—a job, a passion, a creative outlet, a collection—of yours you use as a replacement, a distraction from constantly thinking about sex 24/7.
The only thing that could possibly take the place of my sex addiction is Texas Hold Em. The only problem with that is that it takes money to play and I’ve got none. I guess I’m stuck with being a sex addict!
2. Have you ever loved somebody so much you thought having sex with them would actually sully the pristine purity of that love?
No, but apparently he did? Because we’d loved each other for many years and after we finally had (amazing, mind-blowing, wonderful) sex, he stopped calling me and/or returning my calls. I’ve seen him a few times in the 7 years since then, and there is always this air of sadness about him. It makes me said too, but it was his decision and not mine.
3. If you could make love to yourself, would you? Describe this experience in full detail.
Absolutely! I love the way I taste, I love the shape and feel of my body. I know the exact right ways to touch, lick, and fuck my pussy to get myself off. I would start off by undressing myself. Next I would sensitize my whole body with the lightest of tickling caresses, followed by kisses over every square inch. Once I was writhing and panting, I would suckle and squeeze my breasts before slowly nibbling and kissing my way down to my pussy. I would not dive right in, however. I would tease myself by sucking on the place where my thigh meets my groin. Finally I would warm my pussy with my hot, moist breath and barely touch it with the tip of my tongue.
4. Cum, are you a fan? Explain and expound.
How can one not be a fan? I love cum! Down my throat, dripping out of my cunt, sometimes on my face and body. I prefer to swallow it from a man, and be drenched in it by a woman.
5. Does it creep you out to know that God is watching you as you’re fucking?
Nope. I don’t believe in God. 😛 Besides, I don’t care who’s watching! I like to be watched! 😀
Bonus: Tell us something sexy that happened to you this week.
Sunday night Roland and I decided to hit up a few strip clubs because we hadn’t been to any in far too long. It was on our mind after his recent guest post.

The first place we went was my old favorite, Wackos. We stayed there for about an hour, maybe an hour and a half. The vibe was totally different from how it used to be. The service sucked. And of the 6 girls we saw dance on stage (although the sign outside advertised 50), 4 of them were so skinny that it made me sick to my stomach. I am NOT attracted to skinny girls in the least. This one Cuban girl, though, she was yummy and I tipped her twice. I told her that I wanted to be smothered in her thighs. They were divine! She sat with us for a short while until she went on stage again. I was going to get a VIP dance from her, but she was lured away by a big group throwing around money as soon as she got off stage.

It got too smoky in there after that so we left and went to Roland’s old favorite, Tiffany’s, which was the scene of the lap dances that inspired his guest post. I thought I’d heard they closed down, but they appeared to be open with a banner outside announcing new management. The parking lot only had like 5 or 6 cars. We went inside and it was apparent that those cars belonged to the people working there: 3 dancers (none of them on stage, but sitting at the bar), a bartender, and 2 other bouncer-type guys. One of those guys said that they had just reopened but the official grand reopening wasn’t for a few days. We both had to go to the restroom before we decided what we were going to do. The ladies’ room was one of the grossest public bathrooms I have ever been in. Let’s just say that the flies were NOT the grossest thing about it. I was utterly skeeved, peed in there only because I was about to bust, and couldn’t get out fast enough. I told Roland I wanted to go and told him about the bathroom on the way out.
The last place we when is going to be my favorite place in town from now on. Converted into a gentlemans’ club from a Ryan’s Steakhouse many years ago, Emperors Club was amazing! The first thing I noticed as we walked in was how nice it smelled. And you could tell that it would still look decent once the lights were up, not something you can say about most nightclubs around here, not to mention strip clubs! There was a decent enough crowd scattered throughout the large space. We had only just sat down when a waitress promptly arrived to take our drink order. The large stage had two girls dancing, neither of whom looked like she was starving to death. Once that rotation shifted, the third girl to the stage was just how I like girls: thick with a big, luscious ass. Yum! So of course I tipped her right away. Unfortunately, she was one of those desperate, white trash dancers. She came to sit with us right away and proceeded to tell me about how sad her life is before asking if we wanted a dance. I told her that we’d only just arrived and maybe later. We didn’t see her again.

After that girl left was when the real fun began. Most of the girls were hot and/or energetic, looking like they were having a good time despite it being a relatively slow night. My favorite was a leggy redhead who was 5′ 9 1/2″ without her heels and who danced to “It’s No Good” by Depeche Mode. She instantly won my heart and I told her my name is “Yours” before offering her everything I have: my car, my man, my bank account. She said she had all of those things already, so I told her I have a cat I could offer. She said she could use a cat and I said that I think she would really love my pussy. 😉 My other favorite was a short, dark-skinned girl in glasses with an ass that was to die for. In fact, when I went up to tip her, she thoroughly assaulted my face and breasts with that ass. My boobs felt bruised afterward! It was fantastic! The girls that Roland tipped always waved me up to the stage to sandwich me between them and Roland so they could grope me and purr in my ear (which is apparently a specialty of the house because they all did it, save for that first girl). You know how hot that was! The shooter girl also took a fancy to me and screamed my name every time she came by like I was some kind of celebrity. She’d told me that she was actually a dancer but they were short-staffed and needed a shooter girl. She was smokin’ hot, too.

All in all, it was a great night. I came home smelling like delicious strippers and then Roland fucked me twice, until my pussy was too sore for more. He and I have decided that we will becoming regulars there. Who knows what wild tales I’ll soon have to tell?


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TMI Tuesday – Getting off

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are about gettin’ off. When you need it, you just gotta get it anyway you can.  (For those who are innocent babies “IT” is sex)

Gettin’ Off

1. Have you ever initiated a booty call?

Of course! Who hasn’t? As I’ve been in an almost-6-year relationship, however, it has been a while since I’ve had need for that. That being said, I am in a relationship with a man, and I have other urges to satisfy at times. So every once in a while one of my girlfriends will get a call. 😉

2. Have you ever accepted a booty call?

Absolutely and gladly! While there have been some circumstances where the situation was not ideal, I have been known to be a reliable booty call at times in the past. I have always been very open and accepting of sex, and I enjoy it a great deal. I have no qualms about NSA (no strings attached) sex when the situation is right. Everyone needs to get laid sometimes, right?

3. Ever had a “friend with benefits” relationship? 

Honestly, many of my friends are FWB, or have been at one time or another. We’re very friendly like that. 🙂

How long did it last? 
The FWB that I’ve known the longest has been since we were 12, about 25 years ago. Of course, we didn’t start fooling around then. We didn’t do anything until about 7 years ago. She is probably my longest-running FWB. 

Are you still friends or acquaintances with that person? 

She is one of my oldest and closest friends. I imagine that she will be so until the day we die.

Are you still having sex with that friend?
We don’t hook up regularly, but it still happens on occasion.

4. Tell us about your best one-night stand, what made it so good?

My best ever one-night stand was a night that I’d waited years to happen. An old friend, with whom I was completely in love but with whom the timing was just never right, finally gave in to all of my seduction attempts. He played my body as if it was an orchestra and he was a master conductor. He made me cum harder than anyone had until that point. I had never been so thoroughly satisfied by anyone in my life. But apparently it was to be our undoing, because we lost contact shortly thereafter. I was heartbroken for a long time. I will never understand why he never gave us a chance and why he let our friendship go.

5. When was your last one-night stand?
If it was the 2nd time I’d slept with him in the 10 years that I’ve known him, and it’s likely to never happen again, does that count? If so, December of last year (2011). If not, then December of 2008.

6. What’s the grimiest, dirtiest place that you’ve had sex?
There are a couple of answers for this, hehe. A gas station bathroom? In the Atlantic Ocean? On the beach at the Atlantic Ocean? On my driveway?

Bonus: What’s the one random thing you wish your friends knew about you?
This is three (four), but they add up to one thing: that I’m not always right, I don’t know everything, and I don’t always need to have the last word. And that I let go of things a lot more often than they give me credit for.

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TMI Tuesday – Pain and Pleasure

This week’s TMI Tuesday theme and questions come from Bi and Bi.

Pain and Pleasure

1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?
I enjoy a combination of both. I am fond of saying that I don’t actually like pain, that I like intense sensation. To me there is a definite distinction, because pain hurts. That being said, sometimes I like when it hurts so good. I really can’t clarify it more than that.

2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?
To be quite honest, I loath it. However, I dare you to tell my pussy that. I get positively soaked! Roland has recently discovered that he loves to tickle me during sex and/or during pain play. He especially likes to alternate tickles with swats or bites. It completely confuses my brain and renders me useless! All I can do is laugh and moan. Terrible, I tell you!

3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?
I have had a small feather tickler for a while now but haven’t used it very often. Unfortunately it seems like all of those things fall apart in bits. So little pieces of feather fluff end up all over the place and inevitably get on my face, which causes my face to itch and results in sneezes. NOT sexy!

4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?
It’s not something I’ve done very often, which I hereby think I need to rectify, because I actually do enjoy being blindfolded. Having to rely on senses other than sight can be quite exciting. Not knowing what your lover is going to do next can be exhilarating as the anticipation builds!

5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?
I have used both, but not really as a component of sex play. I am VERY fond of hot wax play coupled with ice. The alternating hot/cold is one of the yummiest experiences I’ve ever had!

6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?
YES! 😀 You can see/read details of this all over my blog. There’s even a label/tag for it. 😉

7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?
I don’t have one specific “stop” safeword. We use the “safety lights”: green for more, yellow for ease off/slow down, red for stop. I have never needed to use any of those, personally, in any of my play time. I’ve been fortunate to be with tops who were able to read my body language well enough to not push me too far beyond what I can take.

Bonus: Tell us in 3-4 sentences the most painful or pleasurable sexual experience you have had.
My sexual experiences, especially pleasurable ones, run far and wide. There’s no way I could detail just one. Definitely not in only 3-4 sentences. I can obviously not do anything in such short order.
I will tell you, though, that the most painful experience I’ve ever had (on purpose) was a 55-minute session with a Violet Wand. It was sheer torture, and not in the good way! Afterward everyone, including the administrator, had no idea how much I hated every minute of it, because I was writhing and moaning as if I loved it. When I explained that I didn’t like it at all, everyone asked why I continued. My reason was manifold: I trusted the top and knew that he would not do anything to damage or harm me; I knew that he would stop at any moment that I asked him to; I knew that it would not last forever; and I wanted to prove to myself that I could endure it. I am glad that I tried it, but I will never repeat it!
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TMI Tuesday – Let’s Go To Bed (Again)

Once again Virtualsin has provided us with TMI Tuesday questions.

Let’s Go To Bed

Most importantly it is the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday. Tell us about your bed.

1. What size (King, queen, full, twin)?
California King

2. What mattress construction (conventional springs, air bed, water bed, Tempurpedic-type)?
Conventional springs with 4-inch memory foam mattress topper.

3. What type furniture (just a frame, headboard/footboard, canopy, trundle, etc)? Describe.
Brass headboard

4. If your bed has headboard/footboard or bedposts, have you ever been tied to them? Ever tied anyone to them? For what purpose?
Amazingly enough, I have never been tied to the headboard, nor have I ever tied anyone else. I think this situation needs to be rectified!

5. What kind of sheets (cotton, linen, silk, flannel)?
Burgundy cotton percale sheets

6. What kind of blankets (cotton, wool, thermal, electric)?
We live in Florida, so there is no need for blankets!

7. What’s on top (bedspread, duvet,…)?
Red and black flocked bedspread

This is quite a bit fancier than our bed, but that’s the same set we bought.

8. What kind of pillow (down, foam, fiberfill)?
My main pillow is two fiberfill pillows shoved into one pillowcase. I also have 3 smaller pillows that I use: one hand-made fiberfill that’s about 6″ x 12″ with a Winnie-the-Pooh pillowcase and 2 of those squishy-bead pillows.

Bonus: Fill in the blank and answer question.

If   you   come over, will [I] let [you] fuck [me] on [my] bed?  YES!

There’s really nothing fancy about our bed. You can see me in it here.

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TMI Tuesday – Good Ol’ Summertime

Good Ol’ Summertime

TMI Tuesday questions submitted by Andee.

1. Summer is a time to escape, kick back and chill. What is your favourite way to relax when the warm weather hits?
I absolutely love the sunshine and summer heat, as long as there is some sort of breeze. I don’t like hot, humid, stagnant air, but when there’s a nice breeze, I almost don’t care how hot it is. My favorite way to relax would be kicking back in the shade somewhere, preferably in a hammock, listening to some music, and/or reading a book. Or tubing down the river with some friends while enjoying a few refreshing, ice-cold adult beverages.

2. Have you ever been to a drive-in movie theatre? My first date was to a drive-in movie, what is your best memory of these classic outdoor theatres?
I grew up going to the drive-in with my parents and two younger sisters. Popcorn, mosquito coils burning on the dash, the tinny sound of the movie coming from the speaker hanging on the window. I can remember seeing a plethora of old Disney films, as well as Jaws, Star Wars, Grease, and other classics. One memory from way back then was watching Every Which Way But Loose on one screen, but way back in the far corner there was another screen showing a porno film! We kids kept turning around to try to watch that, probably most of all because my parents kept telling us that we shouldn’t be watching it!

As an adult, it is been very hard to find a drive-in theater anymore. The last one we had here in town closed a few years ago. It was a real tragedy because the property was purchased by a church. After they took over the property, they found at least a hundred reels of porn films. Because they were very anti-porn fundamentalists, they held a big bonfire and burned all of the films! How awesome would it have been to have those reels??

My best memory of going there was taking my [now ex-] girlfriend’s Astrovan. She, my BFF, her boyfriend, and I picked up a few pizzas and beer, backed the van toward the screen and watched the movie Blow. It was a great time. And, of course, my girlfriend and I totally had sex once or twice in the van there during other movies. 😉

3. Have you ever had a summer fling? How did it develop and why did it end?
Not specifically, now that I think about it. However, the “endless summer of ’94” was a summer filled with many casual flings. It was the summer I discovered and joined the live cast of the Rocky Horror Picture Show, if that tells you anything. “Rocky” parties were pretty legendary and Truth or Dare was our favorite party game…

4. Board shorts and bikinis leave something to the imagination, but have you ever tried a nude beach?
Not specifically, but I have been nude on a regular public beach. Many times!

5. What are your thoughts on the Speedo and the Wicked Weasel?

Speedo, Wicked Weasel bikini and mesh one-piece.
No opinion, really. Just not my personal tastes.

6. The warm weather is a great opportunity to “get busy” outdoors? Have you ever? Tell us about it.
Anyone who reads my blog knows that I “get busy” outdoors as often as possible. I have a large deck on the back of my house and we have sex out there as often as we can!

7. Sunrise or sunset? Which is your summer favourite?
I am a sucker for a beautiful sunset, any time of year. Sunrises are fantastic also, if I can manage to get out of bed early enough, but that’s highly unlikely!

8. What is the one summer delight that really quenches your thirst? How about your lust?
Skinny-dipping! Anytime I can get naked in the water outdoors makes me happy! I don’t care if it’s during the day or night. Nothing is as freeing to me as that. And skinny-dipping often leads to all sorts of friskiness! 😉

Bonus:  Summer is the time to participate in outdoor activities. Where would you most like to have sex :
– on the beach?
Beach sex can be a lot of fun, but it’s very tricky. It can be difficult NOT to get sand in nooks and crannies where you just don’t want it!

– at a picnic?
This is probably the most likely option for me, because Roland doesn’t like camping. Of course, it would have to be a well-secluded picnic. He’s not quite as adventurous and daring as I am. 😉

– camping?
This is actually my top choice of the 3. When you have sex while camping, you really have a lot of options. Because of the thin walls and screened windows, sex in a tent is almost just like sex outdoors. Also, you have the option to having sex outside the tent. Having sex outdoors is a really big kink for me. I just love the natural aspect of it.


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

TMI Tuesday – Think Kink

From the kinky mind of Cara Sutra, I give you this week’s TMI Tuesday questions….

Think kink!

1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically? 
My brain, without a doubt. It gives me the desire to want to try just about anything. It is also conditioned to know that there is no shame in it!

2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they? 
Textbook fetishes? No, not really. I have several kinks, however. I’m going to go ahead an link you to my FetLife page. The “fetishes” haven’t really been filled in to my satisfaction, but it will give you a good idea of the basics.

3. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it? Tell us more… 
Yes, many times with many different implements including, but not limited to: wooden paddles, leather paddles, ping pong paddles, riding crops, canes, wooden spoons, rubber spatulas, hairbrushes, fly swatters, and bare hands. I enjoy being spanked a great deal, especially when it leaves me with a nice, tender tushy and marks to admire later!

4. Have you been tied up, or tied someone else up? Did you use rope or restraints? 
Yes, to both accounts. I have used ropes, neckties, scarves, stockings, just-removed-panties, whatever is on hand.

5. Would you classify yourself as more dominant, submissive, a switch or entirely vanilla
I am a natural dominant and control freak. I don’t like to be told what to do. I like to tell other people what to do. In my mind, services are FOR me, not BY me.

That being said, I have recently recounted how my love, Roland, broke me. Submission does not come natural to me, but it can be brought out in the right circumstances. When I love someone truly, madly, and deeply, I want to do everything in my power to take care of him/her and ensure his/her happiness.

6. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done? 
Truthfully, I am FAR from the kinkiest person I know. The kinkiest thing I’ve done was actually an online/phone roleplay that involved extreme ageplay, incest, rape, bestiality, and scat. All at the same time. I would never do most of that in real life, though. I’ve tried a little bit of everything, though, and will be fully detailed in future posts. 😉

7. Have you been to a BDSM club? What was it like? If not, would you ever go to one? Yes, I have. It was AMAZING. And I can’t wait to go again!

8. What’s your favourite fetish item or implement?
A Wartenberg pinwheel. And/or hot wax. And leather floggers. And a riding crop. Do I have to pick just one???

9. Favourite kinky clothing material?
I truthfully prefer not to wear any clothing at all. I’d rather wear my shit-eating grin and the marks that were left behind from a great play session. However, I do like to see others in leather and/or latex. 😉

10. Thigh boots – love ‘em or hate ‘em?
LOVE! THEM! Wearing them, watching them be worn. HOTHOTHOT!

11. If you’re kinky, who knows about it? Do you tell people or is it a closely guarded secret?
I think just about everybody that knows me knows that I am kinky. The only exceptions are most of the people I work with (of course) and my boyfriend’s parents. I see no reason to keep it from anyone else.

12. What are your personal limits?
Despite the roleplay I mentioned above, these are all hard limits for me: children, animals, corpses, scat. Just about anything else is negotiable.

13. What’s your safeword and why did you choose that one?
I don’t have one specific safeword. We use “safety lights”: red for stop, yellow for slow down, green for MORE!! But I have yet to ever use any.

14. Which fetishes do you just really not get?
Infantilism, i.e. grown-ups who like to pretend that they’re babies, complete with diapers. It completely squicks me out.

Bonus: Complete this sentence: To me, Fetish, Kink and BDSM means…

This is not an easy question for me to answer. I know many who cannot fathom living without their “lifestyle”, that it is such a huge part of who they consider themselves to be, that denying it would be akin to death. I am not that person. There are so many different facets of my personality and being that I don’t feel like I MUST have any of it to survive and be happy. Of course, I could certainly live the rest of my life without ever eating chocolate again, but I certainly wouldn’t want to! To me, they are all just about adding more enjoyment and pleasure to my life. 🙂

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

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