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Scientific Survey on Non-monogamy

For SCIENCE! This is a survey for anyone currently in (or interested in) a non-traditional, non-monogamous relationship. It’s completely confidential, and as an effort to get positive input and perspectives on poly/swinging/open relationships, I fully support taking this questionnaire.

Btw, this is the information on the back end of the survey. The credentials, so to speak:
Due to the personal nature of the questions being asked, you may have questions or concerns that you would like to discuss further. We have provided information about how to contact us below and encourage you to contact us should the need arise.
The primary investigators conducting this study:
Heath Schechinger, M.S., M.Ed.
Email: heath12@ku.edu
Amy Moors, M.S.
Email: amymoors@umich.edu
The faculty advisor for this study:
Barbara Kerr, Ph.D.
Email: bkerr@ku.edu
Counseling services:
• Headquarters Counseling Center, available 24/7, free of charge, for any concern: (785) 841-2345. No charge.
• Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS), Watkins Health Center, (785) 864-9580. Small fee per session.
To discuss your rights as a research participant:
Human Subjects Committee Lawrence, (785) 864-7429 or (785) 864-7385
Email: irb@ku.edu
Additional Nonmonogamy/Polyamory Resources:
• National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: https://www.ncsfreedom.org/
• Loving More: http://www.lovemore.com/
• Alternatives to Marriage Project: http://www.unmarried.org/
• Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance: http://www.woodhullalliance.org/

Sinful Sunday – Tied in blue

Tomorrow afternoon (today for anyone reading this now, I suppose) I have the privilege of visiting a charming house known as The Treehouse for a mass suspension event. I will most likely not be participating (never say never!), but I will definitely be watching and socializing. But the last time I was there, I did get involved with some rope…

X marks the spot!

Posted in participation with Sinful Sunday, hosted by Molly’s Daily Kiss.

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Sinful Sunday – Watching you watching me

I’ve been wanting to use this image for a while now, but something else has always superseded. As I’ve had no adventures this week, I think its time has finally come.

I see you. But what do you see?

Posted in participation with Sinful Sunday, hosted by Molly’s Daily Kiss.
It was picked as one of the top 5 images in her weekly round up!

Click below to see who else is exhibiting their voyeurism this Sunday.

 

TMI Tuesday – Movember

During November each year, Movember is responsible for the sprouting of moustaches on thousands of men’s faces around the world. With their Mo’s, these men raise vital awareness and funds for men’s health issues, specifically prostate and testicular cancer initiatives.
Please participate in TMI Tuesday the next three Tuesdays–Nov. 6, 13 and 20 to help us raise awareness about Prostate Cancer. Come get anal as the questions will be prostate related.
Grab the TMI Tuesday button for Movember and display it with your TMI Tuesday post or for the entire month of November.
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This week the questions, from heelsnstocking.blogspot.com, have a moustache theme and a request for you to join in, even if it’s just a little self checking.

1. Ladies…Have you ever kissed a man with a moustache?

Gentlemen… Have you ever had a moustache?
Did you like it?

I’ve had many men with mustaches. For the entire 6 years I have been with Roland, he has worn his facial hair in a Van Dyke beard. I love the way it looks, and I like that his face smells strongly of me after he eats my pussy. Yay for flavor savers! 😉

2. The say ‘putting on the beared’ means going down on a lady with a full bush. Do you prefer a bearded, trimmed or bald pussy?

I prefer bald pussy, just because I love the feel of smooth, freshly shaven skin. Also, I hate getting those little hairs in my teeth and throat! But neatly trimmed is fine as well. Truth be told, I do like to pet furry pussies. I’m pretty furry right now, and I like to rub my hand softly over my mound without pressing hard enough to actually touch my skin. It gives me tingles.

3. What’s your preferred style of ‘tashing on’? (snogging)

I am a big fan of a fully-engaged makeout session. Mouth to mouth, lips sealed, tongues  dancing and intertwined, breathing through each other.

4. When was the last time you cupped yours or anyone else’s testicles?

Last night! I try to make it a point to cup Roland’s balls as often as I can. 🙂

5. If you had a moustache what style would you be and why?

If I was a man, I’d probably go for a Van Dyke as well. I think it’s incredibly sexy!

Images for styles here: http://uk.movember.com/uploads/images/News/2011%20General/styleguidefull.jpg

If you want to get involved and raise awareness more on your blog or twitter join in here and win a gift set of prostate toys and accessories and £100 shopping voucher!
http://www.sexshop365.co.uk/community/sex-news/index.php/movember-prostate-awareness-at-sex-shop-365

U.S. prizes and co petitions: http://us.movember.com/prizes/

Sinful Sunday – Kill room

This week is the Sinful Sunday Halloween contest. Unfortunately, for one reason or other, I have been unable to participate in any of the previous contests. When Molly announced this one, I knew I couldn’t miss it!

Halloween is the only holiday I really celebrate, and I usually have a lot of fun with it. I had a lot of ideas right from the start. This actually wasn’t one of them. I actually got this idea after a party I attended last weekend. The theme was “A Night at the Asylum,” i.e. serial killers, killers and the criminally insane. I dressed as Annie Wilkes from Misery (with an ax, not a sledgehammer, staying true to the novel as opposed to the movie).
One of the hosts dressed as Dexter Morgan from the show Dexter (based on a series of novels). As an added bonus, they set up a “kill room” in their basement and took photos of each guest on the table with Dexter about to kill him/her. It was great fun.
So for my contest entry, I decided to set up a kill room of my own.

Roland, in the dining room, with a Hitachi…

Posted in participation with Sinful Sunday, hosted by Molly’s Daily Kiss.

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The usual

It begins as it often does. I exit the bathroom after my nighttime toilette to find Roland lying uncovered on his side of the bed. His cock may or may not already be hard because he’s been stroking it while waiting for me. I pull my hair back with an elastic and crawl onto the bed. I may kiss him first, either just a peck or with more passion and duration. Most often, I go directly for his cock.

I either lie on my belly or sometimes I stay up on my knees, but rest on my elbows. I rarely use my hands. I just lean forward and slowly kiss the head of his cock before licking it gently and drawing it into my mouth. Roland likes slower, gentler blow jobs, not the kind you see in most pornos where it looks like she’s trying to yank his dick off. So I take my time, running my tongue along his shaft and around his glans, teasing with my teeth, and then sucking him into my mouth again.

As I’m sucking his cock, loving the feeling of it in my mouth (especially as it hardens), my pussy grows wet. If I am on my knees and elbows, I can sometimes feel it dripping and running down my thighs. Roland usually rubs my back or glides his fingertips over my skin, giving my gooseflesh and making me moan around his cock. Sometimes he will finger my pussy and play with my clit. When the sensations get too intense for him to do much more than focus on the pleasure my mouth is giving him, he will either put his hand on my ass and squeeze occasionally, or he will put his hand on the back of my neck to guide my rhythm and tempo.

Although I love having his cock in my mouth and especially love it when I am able to make him shoot his cum down my throat, nothing compares to having him in my pussy. So once I have him good and hard, all I can think about is fucking him. Without delay I remove one set of lips and get ready to replace them with another, hungrier set.

He knows what is next and is ready for me when I straddle him. He holds his ruler-straight cock so that it is pointing upward and I impale myself on him. No matter how wet I am, how ready, how much he has finger-fucked my cunt, that first moment of penetration always makes me gasp as if my hole has never been entered by finger or dick alike. Nothing compares to that initial contact.

I start very slowly, leaning forward with my chest almost touching his, and work myself up and down his cock. Both of us have our eyes closed, lost in the wonderful feeling of joining our bodies. Because of the length of his magnificent member, I can’t take it all right from the start. I have to work my way down, taking it inch by inch, going down further each time. Finally, with my upper body almost parallel to his, he is balls-deep in my cunt.

Now that he’s in fully in there, I can really start to ride him. I don’t sit up just yet because now is the perfect moment to kiss his full, sensuous lips or blow warmly in his ear or nibble on his neck. He loves those things as much as I do and I can feel his cock tense inside me when I do them. As payback he will lean up and take one of my nipples in his mouth to suck on and then bite gently. He is immediately rewarded with my moans and a gush of wetness around his cock.

I lean back now, feeling him pierce me so deeply it hurts. Rocking my hips pushes him even further into my cunt and I bite my lip against the pain. The pain that I crave more than any other. By this point my clit is throbbing and my skin feels warm all over. I lift myself and then slam back down against him, ramming his cock against my cervix. After a few strokes he lifts his hips to meet my thrusts and I cry out. He reaches up to knead my breasts and pinch and pull my nipples, softly at first but with increasing roughness and pressure.

When I really ride him and fuck him hard, sometimes the tension in the muscles causes my hips to freeze up. He recognizes and understands that, so without breaking stride or pulling out, he picks me up and flips me over on my back. Although the pain at times can be excruciating, I ignore it and spread my legs wide. Our eyes lock as he fucks me at his own pace and rhythm, taking full control from here.

He puts my legs where he wants them. Sometimes they are bent at the knees and pushed back. Sometimes they are extended straight out as wide as they can go. Sometimes he lifts my hips and puts my legs over his shoulders. Sometimes I wrap them around his waist and use my hands to grip his ass and pull him into me harder and harder. But one thing never changes: now that I am on my back, he is pounding into my g-spot and I very badly want to cum.

I reach down between my legs so that my fingers may find my engorged clit. It’s so sensitive that you’d think I would barely touch it and then explode in orgasm. Unfortunately for me, that is never the case. Very gently and lightly I use the moisture accumulated there to rub over the tip of my clit. My cunt contracts at the first touch. For the next several minutes I glide my finger over that one spot until I feel I am almost ready.

Reading my breathing, moans, and cries as if he wrote the book himself, Roland starts to fuck me even harder and deeper than before. When he sees me speed up and press down, he increases his speed as well. My eyes are closed and I am all sensation at this point, focusing all of my concentration on my clit. At last I open my eyes to look up into his.

At that moment, he says the exact words I need to hear. “Cum for me, slut.”

My whole body convulses and shudders as my cunt grips his cock with my orgasm. I writhe and moan and cry out. Every nerve ending on my body is alive and jumping. I have been holding my breath for an untold amount of time and now I gasp as if I am breaking the surface of the ocean after being submerged. My hips buck against him and then I feel him go rigid inside me. His cock pumps hot semen into my spasming cunt and he jerks against me, thrusting reflexively and causing me to cry out again as he jabs into my tender pussy.

For a few moments we are almost stuck together. My body is still quaking with aftershocks and his finally relaxes against me. The moment he withdraws sends shivers all over my body and triggers the biggest aftershock of all. He collapses down on the bed beside me.

Slowly we manage to catch our breath and our pulse calms down. At last he leans over to kiss me goodnight. We say ‘I love you’ and then each roll over, turn off our bedside lamps, and go to sleep.

TMI Tuesday – The LONG and the SHORT of it

Thank you Erotic Adventures in Brisneyland for the following TMI Tuesday questions.
The LONG and the SHORT of it

1. What is the longest relationship you have been in?
My current relationship with Roland. Saturday, October 27 was our 6th anniversary. 🙂

2. What is the shortest relationship you have been in?
I had several flings in my 20s that lasted maybe a couple of weeks.

3. How often do you have sex? How often do you want sex?
We usually have sex at least 2 or three times a week. In a perfect world, I would be having sex at least once a day. I want sex almost constantly.

4. How long does sex usually last?
I think on average we go about 20-30 minutes, depending on how long we have and what time of day it is.

5. Have you ever had an experience where someone couldn’t perform, finished too quickly or couldn’t keep up with you? Tell us about it?
I would venture to say that anyone who has never had at least one of those 3 things occur is lying. We’ve all been through something like that. Probably more than once. It’s completely normal. There are so many factors to consider. One or both partners can be tired or drunk or nervous or overexcited or understimulated, which are all things that influence performance.

6. If you could only have one “type” of sexual encounter for the rest of your life, would you prefer
a) short and sweet
b) wham bam thank you ma’am
c) here for the long haul
d) slow and tender

Honestly, as much as I love rough sex, I would take option D over anything else. I like it when we take our time to enjoy and explore each other.

Bonus: Would you consider ending an otherwise healthy and loving relationship if the sex wasn’t what you wanted?
No. Sex is the easiest issue to resolve in a relationship if both parties are willing to try, and if it is otherwise loving and healthy, then I don’t see any reason why they wouldn’t be. There are just so many other options besides ending the relationship.

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Happy TMI Tuesday!

Sinful Sunday – One for the road

Today I drove down to Orlando to meet up and have a late lunch with a couple of friends. On the way back, I decided to hit up my favorite toy store, Fairvilla Megastore, for something to help me pass the time on the drive home.

*click* for a new perspective…

I put it there as soon as I got to the car. I kept it there on high for half of my ride home. Finally, I had to pull over and make myself cum. The rest of my journey was sooo relaxed!

Posted in participation with Sinful Sunday, hosted by Molly’s Daily Kiss.
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TMI Tuesday – Then & Now

Thank you to the TMI Tuesday reader who submitted the following THEN AND NOW questions. He wanted to remain anonymous.

1. What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17 year old you?
Hahaha… ALL of it!!! I have always been very highly sexualized and obsessed with sex, but I was completely naive about so many things. When I was 17, I felt that blow jobs were very degrading and never would have deigned to lower myself for such. A year later I was doing it for my 31 year old biker boyfriend. And we all know I’m a cocksucking whore, now. 
Speaking of that older boyfriend, I also distinctly remember explaining to him why I would never want a threesome. I said to him, “I would not want to see my man with another woman, nor would I want to see my woman with another man.” Now I totally get off on those exact things!
2. What one thing might shock that younger you?
Perhaps that my 2nd oldest friend/ best friend from 7th grade would become my lover. 🙂 Of course, if she’d known about my same-sex adventures from when I was 14 and living in Missouri, maybe it would’ve happened a lot sooner! There was so much time wasted! I think our lives may have been drastically different. What do you think, Joanna?
3. What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?
My body!!! And stamina. But I’m hoping to reclaim both of those, particularly the stamina. I know I’ll never be 155 again, nor do I ever want to, but I’d settle for 175-180. 🙂 My ass and legs looked so fantastic at that weight!
4. Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?
I’ve still not had sex in a cornfield!!! Somehow when I was 14, that became the thing. Possibly because I was living in Missouri and cornfields were everywhere. It just seemed like it would be a great secret place to have sex. My friends and I would joke that it would become so hot in the cornfield that the corn would pop. So “making popcorn” became slang for having sex in my 8th grade year. 
Bonus: Give your 17 year old self a piece of sexual advice.
Practice CONSISTENT safer sex!! I can’t think of anything more important than that. I’ve been extremely lucky, considering how dumb and careless I was for so long.
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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

Sinful Sunday – Happy trail

“Sinful Sunday is all about the image.”

His jeans were hanging off his hips in that way

I had to share this super hot photo Roland sent me when I was out of town last time. Although I love the cock shots I always get from him when I’m away from home, this is definitely far sexier.

Posted in participation with Sinful Sunday, hosted by Molly’s Daily Kiss.
It was picked as one of the top 5 images in her weekly round up!
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